Queermergent’s One Year Anniversary

Hello Queermergent Readers!

Next month, January 2010, will be Queermergent’s ONE YEAR ANNIVERSARY! SO, i am looking for submissions from anyone of you to share how Queermergent has impacted your life, encouraged you, challenged you, transformed you, angered you, affirmed you, et al!

Email me, Adele: sushichic (AT) sushichic (DOT) com
Include with your post/story/reflection:
1. Title
2. Your name
3. A brief bio at the end
4. a jpg photo of yourself

DEADLINE FOR SUBMISSIONS: January 10, 2010.

Thanks,
Adele

Ugandan Homosexuality Bill

Hello Outlaws … it’s Pastor Nar.

I am in the process of recording an episode of the Losing My Religion podcast that speaks directly to the Ugandan Homosexuality Bill.

I am asking all Outlaws to add their voice – literally – against this human rights atrocity.

All you have to do is call my Google Voice number and leave a message on my voice mail. You can leave your name if you like, or you can remain anonymous – totally up to you. The number is 615-696-9627. Again, all you’ll need to do is leave a message and share your heart – I’ll take it from there.

Honestly, I’m not really concerned about your views on homosexuality, because this bill is not about an ‘issue’ – It’s About People … homosexuals and non-homosexuals alike! Please make your voice heard! Lives are quite literally in the balance … perhaps we can tip the scales on the side of justice, mercy and grace.

Please leave your message by this Sunday, December 13.

Thank you in advance!

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Queer In Africa

i’d like to thank Marius Brand, a wonderful ally to our community, who brought this to my attention.

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Press Statement from

1st African Dialogue on Sexuality and Christian Faith

Hosted by Inclusive and Affirming Ministries (IAM) in partnership with The Rainbow Project (TRP) of Namibia from 2-5 November 2009, Stellenbosch

The past few days 77 participants from 13 African countries met for the first time ever to dialogue about the issue of sexual orientation from a Christian faith perspective. The participants included clergy (pastors, Bishops, National Church Council leadership and Academics) and an equal number of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgendered and intersexed (LGBTI) people, of whom a few were also clergy..  The countries represented were Botswana, DRC, Ghana, Kenya, Lesotho, Malawi, Mozambique, Namibia, Nigeria, South Africa, Uganda, Zambia and Zimbabwe.

During the Introduction we discussed Faith, Cultural and Human Rights issues that made this dialogue necessary: polarization in the Church, diversity in Bible interpretation, patriarchy, lack of knowledge, the fear of persecution of LGBTI people and all those in solidarity with them, laws criminalizing homosexuality in most African countries and right–wing USA groups influencing the agenda of Church and Politics, as in Uganda (read statement attached as appendix).

We introduced the method of DIALOGUE as the preferred Biblical way in which people of faith should discuss this very sensitive, and to many painful, issues – as opposed to DEBATE which only polarizes, rather than pull us together. During the very first session the participants grew to appreciate the safe space that this method of dialogue offered them and started to share freely and often very personally.

Participants moved from a place of fear to a place of empowerment and hope. LGBTI individuals were initially fearful, because of their history of rejection and persecution by the church or government laws, were apprehensive of their fellow clergy participants and on the other hand some clergy admitted that they have never before been exposed to LGBTI Christians.

We experienced dialogue as a way to grapple with the challenges we are facing regarding sexual orientation and our faith. We were able to listen to the stories and testimonies of painful and challenging journeys that touched us all, without fear of rejection and condemnation. The dialogue offered us for the first time to be hopeful of a journey that can bind us together as fellow Christians, rather than divide us.

We therefore affirm and call upon all fellow African Christians to engage in dialogue in finding our way forward, together. There is a great need for safe spaces for dialogue within our faith communities. We need to listen more deeply to all the diverse journeys fellow Christians on our continent are finding themselves on regarding their spirituality and sexuality.

We acknowledged that there are major stumbling blocks that hinder us from fully engaging in dialogue, these include:

  • lack of knowledge about sexual orientation,
  • scriptural interpretations,
  • silence and often invisibility of LGBTI people within faith communities,
  • taboo’s on discussing sexuality in Africa,
  • hierarchical church structures,
  • oppressive laws etc.

These stumbling blocks forced most of the Church into debate ABOUT the issue rather than engage WITH fellow brothers and sisters who happen to be LGBTI.

We entered into a hopeful journey of finding and discussing stepping stones for us in Africa to enable us to start a long and rewarding dialogue process.

  • provide information to lessen ignorance
  • commitment from participants to create safe spaces for dialogue in their countries
  • reading Scripture inclusively that reflects the spirit of love and compassion of the Gospel
  • In order to counteract stereotyping – training and education of the media
  • Telling our stories through our culture and faith communities in order to bring more exposure
  • The importance of self acceptance and affirmation of LGBTI people etc.

We believe God has gifted us with both sexuality and spirituality as aspects of our humanity. It is our duty and responsibility, as members of the same Body of Christ, to affirm amidst our diversity and differences that all of us are made in the image of God. We are equal in value and thus deserve to commit ourselves to this process of encounter, listening and sharing.

We belief that the Holy Spirit is guiding us through dialogue to find our way forward, even in the face of so much fear, anger, pain and even hatred.

APPENDIX

We have asked all participants to share the letter underneath from one of our Ugandan participants with their constituencies and call for more tolerance in their country.

A CALL ON CHRISTIANS TO OPPOSE THE BAHATI’S HATE BILL WHICH HAS BEEN TABLED BEFORE THE UGANDAN PARLIAMENT

“Every day millions of Christians pray to be spared from being put to the test. This prayer is especially applicable for Christians everywhere in regard to the “anti- homosexuality bill”, which has been put to parliament in Uganda, by Member of Parliament Bahati.  This extremely unpleasant proposed bill targets not only lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgendered (LGBT) people but also Human Rights and HIV/AIDS prevention activists and people in positions of trust and authority. While some in the church are backing and propelling the bill, other Christians face a challenge to the principles at the heart of their faith.”  This statement reiterates why all Christians everywhere should not support this HATE bill:

  • The bill breaks rather than builds the family. It makes family members ‘spies’ of each other rather than “keepers” of one another. It turns parents into prosecutors of their children and siblings into accusers of one another.
  • It makes everyone suspicious of any kind of affection in case it is interpreted as intent to commit homosexuality.
  • It undermines and totally dispels the place of compassion, understanding, and love within the Christian Faith.
  • It totally undermines the pivotal role of grace in the Christian Faith. “While we were yet sinners Christ died for us…” The work of salvation was done for us before we were aware of it or even accepted it. God’s gift of love was not dependent on our identities or sexuality or even willingness to acknowledge the gift. It was just given. The Church has the duty to exemplify this understanding and demonstration of love.
  • The same scriptures that are being used to persecute and demonize LGBTI people are very clear on the duty of all Christians to bear with one another’s differences – to be tolerant, to desist from judgment, and to practice the golden rule where we give others the treatment that we would have

Some people think that being homosexual, we are sinners but many people know that we are children of God created in God’s image. Whatever you believe, we call upon you to appreciate that Bahati’s bill is not about any of this; it is not even about homosexuality. It is about politics. It is about hate. It is about intolerance. Among its draconian and hate-inciting provisions, the bill proposes that;

  • Any person alleged to be homosexual would be at risk of life imprisonment or in some circumstances the death penalty;
  • Any parent who does not denounce their lesbian daughter or gay son to the authorities would face fines of $ 2,650.00 or three years in prison;
  • Any teacher who does not report a lesbian or gay pupil to the authorities within 24 hours would face the same penalties;
  • And any landlord or landlady who happens to give housing to a suspected homosexual would risk 7 years of imprisonment.
  • Similarly, the Bill threatens to punish or ruin the reputation of anyone who works with the gay or lesbian population, such as medical doctors working on HIV/AIDS, civil society leaders active in the fields of sexual and reproductive health, hence further undermining public health efforts to combat the spread of HIV.

God calls on all of us to act with compassion, not to call for unfair treatment and oppression of those with a minority voice. God calls on all of us to build family, not to tear it apart by sowing seeds of discord, hatred, suspicion, and intolerance. God calls on all of us to understand and appreciate our differences not to use these to oppress one another.

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Press Statement from

1st African Dialogue on Sexuality and Christian Faith

Hosted by Inclusive and Affirming Ministries (IAM) in partnership with The Rainbow Project (TRP) of Namibia from 2-5 November 2009, Stellenbosch

The past few days 77 participants from 13 African countries met for the first time ever to dialogue about the issue of sexual orientation from a Christian faith perspective. The participants included clergy (pastors, Bishops, National Church Council leadership and Academics) and an equal number of lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgendered and intersexed (LGBTI) people, of whom a few were also clergy..  The countries represented were Botswana, DRC, Ghana, Kenya, Lesotho, Malawi, Mozambique, Namibia, Nigeria, South Africa, Uganda, Zambia and Zimbabwe.

During the Introduction we discussed Faith, Cultural and Human Rights issues that made this dialogue necessary: polarization in the Church, diversity in Bible interpretation, patriarchy, lack of knowledge, the fear of persecution of LGBTI people and all those in solidarity with them, laws criminalizing homosexuality in most African countries and right–wing USA groups influencing the agenda of Church and Politics, as in Uganda (read statement attached as appendix).

We introduced the method of DIALOGUE as the preferred Biblical way in which people of faith should discuss this very sensitive, and to many painful, issues – as opposed to DEBATE which only polarizes, rather than pull us together. During the very first session the participants grew to appreciate the safe space that this method of dialogue offered them and started to share freely and often very personally.

Participants moved from a place of fear to a place of empowerment and hope. LGBTI individuals were initially fearful, because of their history of rejection and persecution by the church or government laws, were apprehensive of their fellow clergy participants and on the other hand some clergy admitted that they have never before been exposed to LGBTI Christians.

We experienced dialogue as a way to grapple with the challenges we are facing regarding sexual orientation and our faith. We were able to listen to the stories and testimonies of painful and challenging journeys that touched us all, without fear of rejection and condemnation. The dialogue offered us for the first time to be hopeful of a journey that can bind us together as fellow Christians, rather than divide us.

We therefore affirm and call upon all fellow African Christians to engage in dialogue in finding our way forward, together. There is a great need for safe spaces for dialogue within our faith communities. We need to listen more deeply to all the diverse journeys fellow Christians on our continent are finding themselves on regarding their spirituality and sexuality.

We acknowledged that there are major stumbling blocks that hinder us from fully engaging in dialogue, these include:

  • lack of knowledge about sexual orientation,
  • scriptural interpretations,
  • silence and often invisibility of LGBTI people within faith communities,
  • taboo’s on discussing sexuality in Africa,
  • hierarchical church structures,
  • oppressive laws etc.

These stumbling blocks forced most of the Church into debate ABOUT the issue rather than engage WITH fellow brothers and sisters who happen to be LGBTI.

We entered into a hopeful journey of finding and discussing stepping stones for us in Africa to enable us to start a long and rewarding dialogue process.

  • provide information to lessen ignorance
  • commitment from participants to create safe spaces for dialogue in their countries
  • reading Scripture inclusively that reflects the spirit of love and compassion of the Gospel
  • In order to counteract stereotyping – training and education of the media
  • Telling our stories through our culture and faith communities in order to bring more exposure
  • The importance of self acceptance and affirmation of LGBTI people etc.

We believe God has gifted us with both sexuality and spirituality as aspects of our humanity. It is our duty and responsibility, as members of the same Body of Christ, to affirm amidst our diversity and differences that all of us are made in the image of God. We are equal in value and thus deserve to commit ourselves to this process of encounter, listening and sharing.

We belief that the Holy Spirit is guiding us through dialogue to find our way forward, even in the face of so much fear, anger, pain and even hatred.

APPENDIX

We have asked all participants to share the letter underneath from one of our Ugandan participants with their constituencies and call for more tolerance in their country.

A CALL ON CHRISTIANS TO OPPOSE THE BAHATI’S HATE BILL WHICH HAS BEEN TABLED BEFORE THE UGANDAN PARLIAMENT

“Every day millions of Christians pray to be spared from being put to the test. This prayer is especially applicable for Christians everywhere in regard to the “anti- homosexuality bill”, which has been put to parliament in Uganda, by Member of Parliament Bahati.  This extremely unpleasant proposed bill targets not only lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgendered (LGBT) people but also Human Rights and HIV/AIDS prevention activists and people in positions of trust and authority. While some in the church are backing and propelling the bill, other Christians face a challenge to the principles at the heart of their faith.”  This statement reiterates why all Christians everywhere should not support this HATE bill:

  • The bill breaks rather than builds the family. It makes family members ‘spies’ of each other rather than “keepers” of one another. It turns parents into prosecutors of their children and siblings into accusers of one another.
  • It makes everyone suspicious of any kind of affection in case it is interpreted as intent to commit homosexuality.
  • It undermines and totally dispels the place of compassion, understanding, and love within the Christian Faith.
  • It totally undermines the pivotal role of grace in the Christian Faith. “While we were yet sinners Christ died for us…” The work of salvation was done for us before we were aware of it or even accepted it. God’s gift of love was not dependent on our identities or sexuality or even willingness to acknowledge the gift. It was just given. The Church has the duty to exemplify this understanding and demonstration of love.
  • The same scriptures that are being used to persecute and demonize LGBTI people are very clear on the duty of all Christians to bear with one another’s differences – to be tolerant, to desist from judgment, and to practice the golden rule where we give others the treatment that we would have

Some people think that being homosexual, we are sinners but many people know that we are children of God created in God’s image. Whatever you believe, we call upon you to appreciate that Bahati’s bill is not about any of this; it is not even about homosexuality. It is about politics. It is about hate. It is about intolerance. Among its draconian and hate-inciting provisions, the bill proposes that;

  • Any person alleged to be homosexual would be at risk of life imprisonment or in some circumstances the death penalty;
  • Any parent who does not denounce their lesbian daughter or gay son to the authorities would face fines of $ 2,650.00 or three years in prison;
  • Any teacher who does not report a lesbian or gay pupil to the authorities within 24 hours would face the same penalties;
  • And any landlord or landlady who happens to give housing to a suspected homosexual would risk 7 years of imprisonment.
  • Similarly, the Bill threatens to punish or ruin the reputation of anyone who works with the gay or lesbian population, such as medical doctors working on HIV/AIDS, civil society leaders active in the fields of sexual and reproductive health, hence further undermining public health efforts to combat the spread of HIV.

God calls on all of us to act with compassion, not to call for unfair treatment and oppression of those with a minority voice. God calls on all of us to build family, not to tear it apart by sowing seeds of discord, hatred, suspicion, and intolerance. God calls on all of us to understand and appreciate our differences not to use these to oppress one another.

Transgender Day Of Remembrance

HT to Straight, Not Narrow for reminding me about it being Transgender Day Of Remembrance TODAY! Let’s remember our Trans brothers and sisters! They are an integral part of our community.

Adele

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From the International Transgender Day of Rememberance web site. Click on the link for more information.

The Transgender Day of Remembrance was set aside to memorialize those who were killed due to anti-transgender hatred or prejudice. The event is held in November to honor Rita Hester, whose murder on November 28th, 1998 kicked off the “Remembering Our Dead” web project and a San Francisco candlelight vigil in 1999. Rita Hester’s murder — like most anti-transgender murder cases — has yet to be solved.

Although not every person represented during the Day of Remembrance self-identified as transgender — that is, as a transsexual, crossdresser, or otherwise gender-variant — each was a victim of violence based on bias against transgender people.

We live in times more sensitive than ever to hatred based violence, especially since the events of September 11th. Yet even now, the deaths of those based on anti-transgender hatred or prejudice are largely ignored. Over the last decade, more than one person per month has died due to transgender-based hate or prejudice, regardless of any other factors in their lives. This trend shows no sign of abating.

The Transgender Day of Remembrance serves several purposes. It raises public awareness of hate crimes against transgender people, an action that current media doesn’t perform. Day of Remembrance publicly mourns and honors the lives of our brothers and sisters who might otherwise be forgotten. Through the vigil, we express love and respect for our people in the face of national indifference and hatred. Day of Remembrance reminds non-transgender people that we are their sons, daughters, parents, friends and lovers. Day of Remembrance gives our allies a chance to step forward with us and stand in vigil, memorializing those of us who’ve died by anti-transgender violence.

Lisa Larges’ Scruples

If you have not already heard, Lisa Larges, an openly gay woman, was FINALLY ordained approved for  ordination in San Francisco in the Presbyterian Church after 20 years. Afterward, a woman, who disagrees with her ordination, received enough signatures that can delay her actual ordination another 18 months. WHY anyone puts up with this shit is beyond me, but i do admire Larges’ tenacity! i don’t know how she has persevered all these years. i think i probably would have said, ‘Fuck YOU’ and given up and left the entire process behind. Yet, maybe there is a greater purpose in the grand scheme of things, and maybe in some way G-D can use all the pain and negativity Lisa has endured to help further our cause along. Maybe i am on crack and maybe not. Time will certainly tell for sure. i am not trying to sound all hyper spiritual about this, but G-D does move in mysterious ways sometimes.i just know some things need to change as i am tiring rather quickly of all this inequality, hypocrisy, and hate cloaked in ‘But it is G-D and scripture saying this, not lil’ ol’ me!’ shit. Thank G-D for embracing people who proudly call themselves our ALLIES!

Reading about Lisa Larges and Her Scruple over at Shuck and Jive today, there were things she said in her statement of departure (scruple) regarding G-6.0106b. (i have not been Presbyterian since i was a kid, so i have no idea what G-6.0106b is except something she was supposed to adhere to in order to become ordained.) Many of her points pertain to the Prebyterian Church but there were some i found to be points that those who are against full-inclusion of Queers in Church, whether by membership, service, or ordination, or all three, NEED to hear.  For if they have eyes to see and ears to hear, let them oh merciful and gracious G-D! i really think our detractors forget us queers are human too, with flesh and blood and real emotions.

Here are the points i am referring to from her scruple:

The text of G-6.0106b continues by singling out one particular derived standard from the historic confessional standards, namely, “the requirement to live either in fidelity within the covenant of marriage between a man and a woman (W-4.9001), or chastity in singleness.” By my conscience, faith and theology I cannot and will not accept the terms of this standard.

* It deliberately and intentionally denies the dignity and lived experience of same gender loving people.

* In so doing it raises one category of persons, heterosexual persons, above all others and thereby makes an idol of heterosexuality.

* Its formulation is based on a certain interpretation of Scripture to the exclusion of other interpretations, which are as sound, held by faithful Christians within our church.

* It imposes a false and impossible choice upon same gender loving persons by not recognizing faithful covenanted relationships between two persons of the same gender.

* It removes sex from the context of intimacy and covenantal relationship and denies the fullness and richness of committed loving relationships between persons of the same gender.

* It denies the full humanity of lesbian, gay bisexual and transgender persons by focusing solely and exclusively on one part of their lives.

* It puts upon the door of the church an “Unwelcome” sign for all gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender persons and their families.

* It props up and provides religious cover for acts of violence committed against gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender persons.

* It has caused schism within our church by driving out gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender persons who cannot fellowship within a church which regards them categorically as inferior.

* It is a scandal to the Gospel and destroys the peace, unity and purity of the church.

i think she so eloquently expresses herself and nails it on the head how our detractors and enemies view us. Things need to change and i applaud Lisa for sticking to her guns and admire her depth of fierceness she has displayed with real maturity! What do you think? What are your thoughts on her scruple?

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Adele Sakler currently resides in Sacramento, California with her partner, and their cute Tibetan Spaniel named Mushu. She suffers from, and is in treatment for, Chronic Lyme Disease, a few other Tick-Borne diseases and Heavy Metal Toxicity. She considers herself at this point in her journey a Christian agnostic because she just can’t seem to sign on the dotted line and ascribe to all the man-made doctrines and long-held man-made traditions of Christendom any longer. She is thomas, doubter. She is judas, betrayer. She is nicodemus, reluctant in the night. She is st. john of the cross, soul darkened by love. She is lost, wicked, and depraved but redeemed by the grace and beauty of God.

She loves G-D and is a failing Christ-follower. She blogs at http://www.existentialpunk.com/ and is the creator and site administrator for http://www.queermergent.com/.

Stone Throwers anyone? reflections on queers suffering persecution within Christianity

Stone Throwers anyone? reflections on queers suffering persecution within Christianity

BY Erika Gisela Abad

What if…God knows our needs and knows all about the injustices queer people suffer, but won’t do anything until we start praying earnestly about it?

A former roommate from my co-op days, often said that God is in the struggle, considering the multitude of ways we approached living the gospel outside of traditional Catholic means. Pissed, frustrated with university administration as well as the human limitation we were expected to live up to in our work, we found ourselves disgruntled by the overabundance of work and the indifference of many who surrounded us. This past year I saw how overextension and self-dehumanization through imposed martyrdom, limited community as the process of our work went against combating internalized oppression that had been the foundation of our purpose. This current place of contemplation and introspection is as hungry as Jesus was after forty days in the desert. It is a place of wondering how to get back to the basics after a few years of doing what was right as defined by repressive systems—even at the attempts at resisting them.

When asked to write about suffering, I have to start with the dreams and conversations I had had with God as a child, shortly after I was confirmed. I was a preteen at the time, recognizing I was curious to loving beyond assigned gender, worried because of the sin I had been taught it was. What did I know in that regard? Often times, in the morning light, I asked God to give me purpose even if it meant losing love I had dreamt of. I would make deals with God that I would live the life I wanted for me in dreams, in fiction, in my writing, if that meant I could serve a greater purpose in the world. After the manifestation of these visions, dreams and conversations with God, it is important to revisit the sense and wonder of God’s spirit with us through the examination of critique of the imposed expectation of suffering.

Faith inspires us to do a great deal. It inspires charity, generosity and humility. Sometimes, if we are not careful in seeing past what is asked (by literal reading of the text and doctrines as well as the material world’s demands), then we become ‘weekender’s’ and suffer more greatly than we can ever imagine. Sometimes the charity we give or receive is grounded in limiting what we give and take based on others’ human limitations. Here are some examples:

I have seen many cry and not touched them. I have seen many fall apart in front of me and be denied that form of compassion. I have denied myself expressing it, consenting to a God of silence, repression and control instead of looking at God and Christ as continuous resisters.  Seeing God as punisher accounts, often times, for frustrated silence.  One person may explain, this pain is mine alone to endure and I do not want to share it. Another, for being having been rejected will say, I cannot ask for it, I may even claim I don’t need it, but if you deny it to yourself to me, I will project others’ rejections of me on you and blame you for it.

Unapologetic

The work we do to make our daily bread may be different than the Work we are called to do for God. The distinction, often times, is ground for conflict. God is in the struggle to love unapologetically, even if/when that love is unwanted. Sometimes, the magnitude of compassion and grace of which we are capable is limited by the work we have to do, even as it hinders our greater Work.  Our human limitations often inform us that making daily bread requires suffering, where God the punisher comes in to our midst, straining us from prayer, contemplation and undying faith that God provides.  God the punisher, the King is the focus of such surrender to systemic repression, exploitation that tempts us to shy away from fulfilling our spiritual needs in fulfilling God’s purpose for us. There is one God, however, for those in power who indirectly ask us to endure suffering, there is the temptation to use God and the church as justification for enduring inhumane treatment. The distinction lies in how we are expected to endure and bear a great deal of pain, carry crosses like Jesus not approach loving and being who are as another form of resurrection.  Being queer and believing who we are is not enough to call for the Church or any love us as God’s children is going against what God is calling us to do. Treating our social affliction as sin and the process by which we are being called to share it insignificant reifies barriers to God’s love in our lives and in who we can be for any community in which we participate.  It is a denial of the hope and faith and love in how we serve because who inspires our spirit does not cater to a doctrine that often times is misconstrued to see uninhibited emotions as sin.

Mary Magdalene’s gospel states that Jesus told her sin is the marriage between our souls and something material that is ‘unnatural.’ The desire to go against who we are, who we are called to be outside of rules, laws, as Jesus had been, is such an act of adultery. What does that have to do with suffering? We suffer when we take on more than we can, but also when we impose on ourselves an existence and forms of expression that are not ours—that is as much pushing ourselves to be something we aren’t as well as allowing our environment to impede us from following God as the Spirit calls us each to do, often differently. That also means internalizing the false truths others impose on our communities for the sake of silencing us, that we may internalize our afflictions and see us as serpents—the un-human that is keeping humanity paradise. Original sin is not particular to certain groups; expecting us or any to carry the brunt of it is what keeps us from fully embracing God’s grace.

The Stone the Builders Rejected

Jesus’ way of loving and his teachings were the reasons he was persecuted. He engaged with the untouchables and the unwanted, extending to them God’s truth and the promise of salvation.  Despite the many times he had been rejected, he becomes the cornerstone for God’s new reign on earth. He is not the first, though, scripture has many rejected who are later recognized as the salvation of a people. The examples of Moses, Joseph, Jesus, among many other prophets, demonstrate to us the ways in which that those who are most rejected become the cornerstone of the (r)evolution of the community that rejects them. Jesus was condemned for the sake the state, much like queers silence ourselves for the institutions—families, work, church, queer communities—that seek to condemn us. Assigning time and value  to the persecution we suffer at the hands of these institutions denies compassion to both the persecuted and the persecutor. The persecuted crumble under our fingers and the resurrection promised to all of us, the possibility of heaven on earth becomes that much more difficult.

For some of us, we spend our lives rejecting our unconventional form of desire to then, when we fully accept who  we are, have it become the foundation of who we are. Sometimes that certainty worries our families as Jesus speaking at the temple at the age of twelve had(Luke 2:42-51). He was doing God’s work and yet, somehow incited anxiety in his parents’ heart because he could not be found. Accepting who we are and the work we are meant to do, at times, comes at such a cost, appearing lost to our families when the acceptance and self-acknowledgement of who we are is in and of itself divine, despite social persecution that will come as a result.

I said queer persecute each other as well for a variety of reasons.  There are individuals who identify as queer, lesbian, gay, omni-,pan- and/or bisexual who believe because of their processes of self-fulfillment and security, as well as reading all the ‘right’ books, participating in various forms of rites of passage, that they can disseminate wisdom, much like the Pharisees Jesus encountered, like the religious leaders who tell many of us to endure our suffering for we will reap our rewards in heaven (Matt 5:12; 6:1 and Luke 6:23).  Again the persecution of the prophets of Jesus’ past are referenced, because they may have lain certain groundwork for the children of God, but so long as humanity continues to exist, there will be more ways to worship God and follow God’s calling for all.

The work of contemporary radical/liberation theologians, however, call that heaven be brought to earth. We should not wait until death to receive it because it is in our power and our calling to resist participation and consent to oppression—whether our own or others. This may be one of the reasons heaven belongs to children (Matt 19:12-14). Children’s trust has yet to be tainted by the demands of the earth and by the limitations we impose on ourselves as a result of negative experiences and contentions with institutions of power bound by tradition, social expectation and economic stability. How else to grapple and contend with definitions and purposes of sex as well as gender.

Queers, because the way we love and express that divine and most sacred gift in all our varied complexities, are blamed and scapegoated for the criminality of sexuality. Part of the criminality are the narrow interpretations of what sexuality can offer a person and what is the intention of the act, relationship, and drive behind it.  In the blog post on why queers pray, it was stated that the way we live can be a form of prayer—something I had almost forgotten—every act we can be such if we allow our faith in Christ to be that strong. If we allow ourselves to be that intentional.

Who without sin can throw the first stone—aren’t enough being thrown?

The arguments regarding who and how we love, whatever lines imposed on us that we cross, is driven by a hunger for human connection that transcends definitions, impositions, rules made for containment. Such transcendence, in this world, is difficult when our lives are continuously grounded in material conditions. The most complex material reality is what comes out of us. When we persecute the persecuted, when we threw stones and accept the stones thrown at us for our imperfections, sin is not forgiven, rather receiving God’s grace becomes more difficult (John 8:7). Sometimes we are tempted to throw stones as a result of the scars we still harbor from the ones thrown at us. How else to describe this presumed inevitability of suffering? At times, out of humility, guilt and shame for being who we are, we throw them at ourselves for each day of silence we live because of the definition of ‘sin’ imposed in our lives.  In this way, we treat ourselves as Eve and Adam treated the serpent for tempting them; we become resentful of caring for our kin as Cain had grown; any distance we put between ourselves and God in an attempt to bring us closer according to another’s relationship, by meditating our relationship with God through others, we lose God. That, despite any rules of any systems, regulations and or institutions, is the greatest source of our suffering.

Undoubtedly, there is much we can learn from the struggles of others and the struggle to listen to God. Such lessons are especially significant in a world where we are defined by our socialization, by the expectations of others. The negotiation of means and ends—putting aside the unwanted aspects of who we are in our daily quest to serve God—will cause us fall short. Still, that does not mean God does not love us nor that God is not with us during our momentary lapses. For the queer Christian, it is often more difficult to find grace because fighting for who we are often feels like we’re pressuring others. It is my frustration with queers and with straight individuals who fail to comprehend the commonality of our quest for human dignity.  Our kinship gets lost when we begin to believe asking for heaven on earth is a political ploy and that hope for tomorrow without acting on it is enough. Faith without works is dead (James 2:20), which calls some of us to defend our participation and respect in Christian institutions.

If there is something to learn from communities whose ancestors were persecuted in the name of the institution of Christianity, it is this: not all of them consented to the idea that heaven could not be achieved on earth. Christ died for our sins so that we would not have to suffer for our imperfections. Christ neither wanted us to suffer political persecution as he and his followers had then. They did suffer—not because they refused to believe in who they are nor in the power of God, but because their faith was marked as dangerous, as dissident, even as they prayed in private, in secret to save their lives. Not because they were ashamed but because they knew what it would cost. And their commitment, their loyalty, in part, sparked a revolution that now has believers in Christ as one of the largest global populations—despite our continued disagreements on how the process of conversion and commitment. The apostles and Christ suffered not because they consented to their persecution but more so because it was a sin against God and who they were as a people to not believe in who they believed in, to not be moved by the Spirit, much like the Spirit moves some of us to seek human companionship in our own gender or regardless of gender.

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Erika Gisela AbadDaughter of Hispano-Caribbean immigrants, born and raised Roman Catholic in the United States. Despite various attempts at conversion and agnosticism, remains Catholic. Student of life, politics, all but dissertation in American Studies. Currently spends time attending daily mass, reflecting over scripture and writing and reading for her dissertation.

Camp Courage Sacramento

Saddened and angry about the anti-equalitty vote in Maine on Tuesday but excited about the progress we made in Kalamazoo and Washington state, i am REALLY excited to be participating in the following grassroots training this weekend. i really want to be an active participant in seeing marriage equality restored in California. If you are in Sacramento or nearby, PLEASE consider signing up and joining us! Allies welcome too!

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Welcome to Camp Courage Sacramento!

We can’t wait to meet you, work with you, and learn from you this weekend as we continue the important work of helping build a movement for marriage equality and social change across California.

Inspired by the “Camp Obama” trainings that powered neighbor-to-neighbor organizing across America in 2008, Camp Courage is an intensive two-day training designed to teach the principles and skills of community organizing to activists working to restore marriage equality to California.

Drawing on techniques honed for decades by progressive social movements, Camp Courage teaches empowerment, team building, leadership development, and grassroots organizing skills.

We are humbled by the response to Camp Courage Sacramento and we are looking forward to your involvement as well as your feedback so that future Camp Courage trainings can be even better.

Camp Courage Sacramento is just hours away. And here is everything you need to know before we see each other on Saturday morning:

CAMP COURAGE SACRAMENTO

WHEN: Saturday, November 7, and Sunday, November 8

Full-day participation required both Saturday and Sunday. Please also allow extra travel time so you can be on time to the opening session.

8:30-9 a.m.: Registration. DON’T BE LATE!
9 a.m.: SHARP! Training begins
5:30 p.m.: Training ends

WHERE:
Elks Tower
921 11th Street, Suite 210 (2nd Floor)
Sacramento, CA 95812

MAP: http://tinyurl.com/SacramentoCamp

PARKING: City Hall Garage (11th & I). Weekend Rates: $5 daily maximum charge

FOOD: A small continental breakfast will be provided but it is necessary for participants to bring their own lunch to Camp Courage on both Saturday and Sunday. As lunch time is limited and there will be no time to leave the Camp venue to purchase lunch, please make arrangements before you arrive at Camp to bring lunch with you.

STONEWALL DEMOCRATS SATURDAY NIGHT SOCIAL RECEPTION: Join your fellow leaders, facilitators and activists at a mixer directly following Camp Courage on Saturday evening, starting at 6:30 p.m. The Stonewall Democrats are graciously sponsoring this event, organized by fellow activists Cooper Rae and Steve Hansen, at The Verge Art Gallery in Downtown Sacramento.  There will a number of special guest speakers, including local politicians. Come network with other Sacramento area activists and start making plans to restore marriage equality to California.

The address of The Verge is 1900 V St., Sacramento, CA 95818. There is ample free parking both in a parking lot there and on the street.  Food and beverage will be provided, including alcoholic beverages for our guests 21 and over. A $10 donation is requested but not required.

NEED A PLACE TO STAY?: The Greens Hotel, a hip boutique hotel in Sacramento, is giving a 20% discount for Camp Courage participants. Please mention the “Camp Courage” discount rate when making your reservation:

http://www.thegreenshotel.com

NEED A RIDE? SPECIAL OFFER ON TRANSPORTATION NEEDS: To make Camp more accessible for those commuting, Sacramento activist Mario Guerrero, Camp Courage Sacramento Transportation Coordinator, is organizing carpools.

If you are interested in finding transportation to the Camp Courage training or if you are able to provide transportation, please contact Mario and let him know. Please contact him and tell him who you are, where you are coming from, and whether you need or can give a ride. He will then match you up with people from your area.

Please contact Mario Guerrero ASAP at mg544@cornell.edu.

ACTION BOARD: Many participants already work or volunteer with one of the organizations working on marriage equality. We are providing an Action Board where each group can post information about upcoming actions and activities.

If you have any additional questions about the training, please direct them to “CampCourage@couragecampaign.org“.

Thanks so much, and we look forward to meeting you this weekend!

Mike Bonin
Camp Courage Program Director

The Courage Campaign is part of the Courage Campaign’s online organizing network that empowers more than 700,000 grassroots and netroots supporters to push for progressive change and full equality in California and across the country.

 

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Christianity 21 Roundup: a few thoughts from backstage

Christianity 21 Roundup: a few thoughts from backstage

BY Rachel Swan

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This post appeared originally at Rachel’s blog, The Sweet Bi and Bi, on October 17, 2009 and has been cross-posted here with Rachel’s permission.

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Last week in an unlikely place of beauty—Edina, MN, known for its wealth and whiteness—a whole bunch of people gathered to listen, contribute and participate in Christianity 21. This is my reflection on that time. A word/warning–I was a volunteer. I missed out on sessions I really longed to hear like Debbie Blue, Makeesha Fisher, and Lisa Domke. I bounced in and out. I spent time seeing and participating in stuff around, and not necessarily IN Christianity 21.

So, like so many others from the event, it has taken me quite a few days to process what this feeling is that I am sitting in, left with, hanging on to, watching unfold. What I can say unequivocally is that I feel deeply grateful to have had the opportunity to participate. It was a bit like watching history get made. Here are my standouts:

  1. Mike Croghan and Amy Moffitt. Mike has been a bloggy friend for a long time, and asked if my beloved and I would be able to host him and his really awesome friend. I had been holding the space in our home open for just such an ask (could insert a stewardship lesson here, but I will save that for another time). For 5 days my home was filled with laughter, tears, kindness, intelligence, and goodness. I got some serious hang time with people who have forever helped me be a better person. Christianity 21, like the Great Emergence event last December, has first and foremost been about new, deeper, unexpected relationships. I met a lot of people at #c21, and am left with this reminder of the gifts that lie ahead when we open our selves, our homes, our lives to one another.
  2. I was a concierge, which means I was assigned to a few presenters to help them get from place to place, and made sure that their needs were being met (like, do you have enough food, water? Do you need anything that I can get for you? Etc.). I was assigned to my friends Seth Donovan and Nadia Bolz-Weber, as well as offering rides and other duties as needed to 11 other folks. I can’t imagine a time where I will be someone up there, presenting on something, sounding all smart and innovative. And I am ok with that. But what a joy to be out here, doing what I DO do best: hospitality and helping. I love that I got to be a part of something that for me flattened the hierarchy and said that what each of us brought was important–vital even–to the conversation. No, I wasn’t able to be in each session, but I was invited to take part, and I did that, and it feels like a little glimpse into what Kingdom work can be about. In listening to others, it seems like everyone felt like they got to do this, in their own way. And isn’t that a beautiful thing? participation in deep, true, authentic, transforming ways.
  3. I don’t want to gush and gush about JoPa, but in order to really get at the heart of this thing and I have to gush a little bit. Seth Donovan said “i watched two straight, white men spend (and disrupt) their privilege.  they had access to venues, connections to people, support from sponsors, budgets to watch, and reputations to maintain, and they organized an event that supported the leadership and voices of folks who have been asked to take the backseat in the church.  and asked other folks who have similar privilege to show up for it.  and we were transformed.” So right on. They dreamed up an event that may not have made economic sense, but for sure made Kingdom sense. They could have done the same old same old and given the “big names” top billing, more time, more _____. But they didn’t, they held to this crazy ass economy of G-d, that there was an abundance in “unlikely” places, we sat at the feet of each other, all of us. In the Kingdom sometimes the last are first and the first ARE last, right? And the thing is, the rewards of this may not even be realized anytime soon. Brave. Humbitious. Beautiful. Well done, JoPa.
  4. Queermergent. I had the privilege of spending time with a new and good friend, @mojojules aka The Wonderer. After Jenell Paris‘ presentation, in which she posed the question “Is homosexuality a sin?” there was some chitter chatter on the tweets, some butts (like mine) shifting in the pews and a real desire to continue the conversation about being queer and Christian. So–again, like at the Great Emergence in Memphis–we made it happen. Jules offered us a place and time to meet. So, late on Saturday, about 15 (??) of us gathered in the lobby of the hotel and spent time. We asked questions and came out about where we were in our own journeys of the faith and queer wondering. The conversation was honest, rich, and challenging at times. I was reminded again why having a queer voice and presence in the 21st century church is so vital. We are a gift, we are a part of the Body of Christ, we are an other to some, a friend and family member to so many.
  5. I am torn; I want to name names, gush and go on about people. I want to give props to people, not for what they said but for who they are. You each warm my heart and spoke to me, whether we met and spoke, or in many cases, not. I connected with some, others I just observed awkwardly. I don’t want to name names, so as to not forget anyone. So if you were there, whether we connected or not, you are on my list. Thank you, all of you. And a special wink and smile for you who I call friend. You shaped me most of all. I look forward to next time.

I will be purchasing the C21 Multi-Media Pack. I look forward not only to hearing more, listening more closely, but to looking for (like JoPa did) those voices that are shaping the 21st Century church. Perhaps one of those voices, people, ideas, things is right here in my possession and its dying to be shared. I feel invited. I feel connected. I am so grateful.

Check out the #C21 hashtag on twitter for other blog posts, links to resources, and some killer quotes and people. So very grateful. Thank you (you know who you are, yes you. Thank you. And you, and you and you.)

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just rachelMy name is Rachel. I am a child of G-d, failing and hopeful. I am the beloved of ‘Ratchet’ who is mostly referred to as Sweetie. I am a motherless daughter with an amazing family full of siblings, nieces, a nephew, father and step-mother, wonderful in-laws, a kitty Tigger, and a gaggle of queers.
I have worked in Lutheran and Episcopal churches as well as their middle management offices aka the office of the Bishop. I used to work in restaurants, and find that the link between the two worlds is much smaller than most people would assume.
I blog here, and at The Swandive. I live in Minneapolis, MN, one of the greatest places on earth (no, I am not kidding).

The QueerFactor: The Unexpected Conversation At Christianity21

The QueerFactor: The Unexpected Conversation At Christianity21

BY Jules

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We all sat there wiggling our seats.  My twitter was going crazy and my mind was racing.  I kept thinking, “do I get up and leave?  This wasn’t part of the plan here.”  There it was on the screen blaring in our faces.  One tweet from a dear friend screamed out, “why does my stomach suddenly hurt?”  I knew why, she knew why.  The words on screen could not be ignored nor could the implication of what they meant to anyone in the LGBTQ community, “IS HOMOSEXUALITY A SIN?”  Yes, there they were and all of us at Christianity21 were in the uncomfortable space we mostly want to deal with in our inter web experience, privacy of home or in the safe space of our minds.  I felt numb, I wanted to get up and leave, but yet something told me to stay.  Jenell Williams Paris opened a can of worms none of us knew was coming.   She handled her conversation with ease and questions.  One moment you were laughing and the next you were in that uncomfortable space.  You couldn’t help but wonder what your neighbor was thinking.  As we all answered her questions to indentify who was “in” and who was “out” many were given the challenge of knowing what it may feel like to be the one on the out, the one with the sympathetic look of, “poor dear….bless your heart.”  She left us all in question of what to do with her conversation.  How do we respond?  Many responded in a way I did expect to happen that weekend.  They wanted to talk, comfort, and just process what was said that very first night.   I know Rachel and I were both a bit shaken by it all and almost felt unsure how this conversation would come about.  Little did any of us know Seth Donovan was up to bat the very next day.

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Seth opened to the door to what it means to be fully a part of the gathering of believers.  The challenge of what the world asks of us and what the church gathering ask as well.  She tore open the drapes and told us she must come to the gathering fully herself.  Compartmentalizing herself in the gathering stops her from full worship and there wasn’t a soul there who could not say it was them she was speaking of in that very moment, you knew this by silence.  She said something so profound, to me at the very least, “The most important thing whether I’m right or whether I’m wrong…and the church to me, because of my relationship to God to me is so nonnegotiable. That, that relationship is so important to me that it doesn’t get taken away, because I don’t have something that is figured out.”  I myself sat there in tears and a complete knowledge Seth was speaking what my heart has been screaming for a long time.  She spoke about walking into the gathering and knowing she is loved, that any of us is loved.  I watched her mold two people into her vision of confession and my tears could not stop as I saw the confession of my heart being told as well.  Then she asked us to do something that was outside of our box, we were to mold someone into our confession.  I looked around and quickly grabbed the one person I knew their name since this felt like the safest thing to do.  This man, on the surface, might seem not the gentle person to pick, in his black rim glasses, his gage rings in his ears and not to mention his broad shoulders he seemed to me the closest thing I know to be home because I saw my brother, Marshall.  He looked at me and told me the only “off limits” was I could not make him kneel and so I molded him into my confession.  Nothing fancy, but it was all I could produce with all Seth had laid on us.  Once my molding was done it was his turn and I was once again uncomfortable.  He then looked me in the eyes and said, “I think you need a hug and so my confession will be a hug to you.”  In that moment I was accepted and in that moment I felt my walls collapse around me.  I went to sit after that moment and once again my twitter went nuts.  More people wanting to talk so Rachel and I decided to put out the flare, “Want to talk about Christianity and #queermergent come to hotel lobby at 10 tonight.”

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That night was filled with a lot.  To say many of us weren’t “peopled out” would be an understatement.  I had not heard anything official from one twitter or person if they were going to be there.  A part of me almost felt relieved, but there was a different plan.  I returned to the hotel and decided to call my girlfriend, Sue.  As I was speaking to her a group of women came around me and said, “Are you MoJoJules?  We really want to sit and listen about Queermergent!”  Gulp, gasp…shit!  They took us serious!  They want to listen?  Holy crap….RACHEL?!??!?!!  Soon, a  few turned into a large circle in the hotel lobby bar of at least twenty.  The conversation started off general and then once again Seth pushed right into the deep water.  What I watched that night was another side of confession.  My personal confession of loneness, frustration and passion for the future.  Others confessed their confusion and the utter lack of how to reach out to those of us in the Queermergent arena.  One gentleman even challenged me in my words and asked questions that made us in the LGBTQ to even say we even have our “question” we toy with and stumble through.  For example: transgender and our response to them within our community.  Yeah, went there.  At the end what was found, at least for me, was a conversation that can be had where all can participate in honesty and beauty.

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Christianity21 held a lot of things, but for this participant it held not one, but all the fruits of the spirit with community reflecting all of them in beautiful harmony.  It showed up in the uncomfortable space of “the question” we all dread, in the space of confession, and in the space of pure conversation of a group of questioners.  My hope from all of it is this: that bridges were built, questions were answered and if they weren’t we all feel challenged to go to depths of them to find the beauty of the question, if not push to find an answer.  I don’t know anyone could have walked away unaffected by Christianity21 and the spirit that was there.  I was honored to be there and more than humbled to see our Connector work beyond our expectation.  Out of all this I think those of us in the Queermergent realm can say this, there was bridges built at Christianity21 and in the emergence conversation.  We are not just educators, but we are participants of the community to help it reach its full potential in the future.  Don’t lose heart my friends there is evidence of challenge and hope for community that does not hold the world “inclusive” but of doors open to the believer that holds their holy relationship to grow.

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JulesJules currently lives in a small town in the bootheel of Missouri.  She is currently a student at Southeast Missouri University and studying Exceptional Children/Elementary Education with hopes to work with children who are on the autistic spectrum and earn a Masters degree as a Board Certified Behavioral Analyst.  Julie was raised in a strong Christian home that taught her the strong value of community and in some ways is your typical PK.  She has always been in a dance with her Abba from a young age and will continue the turns, twist, and beauty of it.

Pre-Order your “It’s About People” Shirts Today!

A fellow ally has created this cool T-shirt and i wanted to give you the opportunity to know about them and how to order one, two, three or more! The ORDER DEADLINE IS THIS FRIDAY, OCTOBER 16th at 11.59 pm!

Info HERE! AND here is the original post about the T-shirt.

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